Men and Bubbles

I’m not living in a bubble. I just thought I should say that first, and right now it doesn’t matter how I type or how I say it, but I will let you know that I’m not in a bubble. I fell in love with him, and that’s a painful truth that I’m trying not…

Friendships and Sluts

Hoe hoe hoe How did people get the right to define us?I have one of those beautiful but at times crazy friendships with one of my bestfriends here, and simply put, she is not a bad person, but because she has a fat butt, that alone, just the big butt, she has been slut shamed…

When Can You Move On?

It’s a question I have, but I’m going to sign off with some sense of awkwardness. Let me explain-ish first…. So,the love of my life is no longer the love of my life ( I think, I mean, I don’t know, but you get the point, he’s not in my life in that sense anymore…

Happy New Year (Sort of)

I know……. outdated, but let’s work with me here. First thing’s first, I’m blogging at 3am, so you know I’m getting real. Nope, no alcohol, no shots and no coffee. ____________________________________________________________________So, I lost the love of my life. No, he didn’t die, or get hit by a bus although that bus hit and run idea,…

No More Blogging

I have debated.Back and forth. Then round and round. Then back and forth again. The conclusion……. I will nolonger be blogging as from after my birthday in September. Well, atleast not on this site. I mean seriously, I haven’t blogged in the past few months due to work that has kept me overwhelmed and busy,…

Superwoman Kit

This is literally how I got through 2016 after many accusations of working too much ( snorts..as if you won’t call me ” lazy” or one of those women who will work their way to the top by being on their knees if you know what I mean) 1)Breathe….then cry : I am such a…

: Chronicle:2016 In One Lesson

I remembered I blogged 6 posts previously about ” Chronicles of being an African Daughter” especially one like me, one that is, you know, little miss independent, and I promised one more chronicle. I post-poned it since September but here we are…………….. ” If you were asked what lesson, one lesson, did you learnt this…

Dating a Fatherless Daughter

So I read an amazing article on the struggles that fatherless girls can face, and quite frankly I agreed with most of the stuff. It got me thinking on what it’s like to date a fatherless girl, well, basically to date myself that is, and I am quite a pro at analysing myself whether I’m…

My Obsessions. My Happiness.My Sanity

LIBRARIES AND BOOKS: I am typing this from a library, and on my days of feeling low, I go to a library. My parents taught me the love of books,and without books and writing, I’m only a portion of a human being. I can spend the entire day at the library because it brings me…

Somewhere out there, in some small society , there’s a girl who has such big dreams it hurts. If she had the chance, she’d probably be  a better speaker than me, more confident, more distinct…but we’ll never know. Her people have looked down on her. Doubted her. Hurt her. Don’t put a discount on our…

Women who Slay

We are officially here! OFFICIALLY! First announcement: I never want to hear that corny mess again on how fatherless black girls are good for nothing and become thots who waste their years not doing anything with their lives, because I am clearly here and I am clearly worthy. Now, on to other things….. Last Thursday…

Breaking Up With Friends

And I thought break-ups were for lovers alone? *snorts*. Well,let’s start with me. I should have posted this basically weeks ago, literally 3 months ago ,but I needed to bite my tongue, and bite it hard. Now, when I came to Bangkok, everything was just not going my way, literally felt like life was opposing…