Superwoman Kit

This is literally how I got through 2016 after many accusations of working too much ( snorts..as if you won’t call me ” lazy” or one of those women who will work their way to the top by being on their knees if you know what I mean) 1)Breathe….then cry : I am such a…

: Chronicle:2016 In One Lesson

I remembered I blogged 6 posts previously about ” Chronicles of being an African Daughter” especially one like me, one that is, you know, little miss independent, and I promised one more chronicle. I post-poned it since September but here we are…………….. ” If you were asked what lesson, one lesson, did you learnt this…

My Humanitarian Milkshake & The Boys

* Clears throat* Well well well, look at what hard work is starting to bring in my DM and in my Messenger shaking my head. Before we continue, I love these pants and they’re over 2 years old but I’ve put them back in the suitcase now that I know all the $3 thrift shops…

Take Away The SEX…

Let me get my Auntie Advisor cap on before I start. Now you know I struggle with boundaries when it comes to my vocabulary sometimes, and it’s worse on my blog and this was something that’s been bugging the living lights out of me. WHY ARE MORE AND MORE WOMEN SLEEPING WITH GUYS THAT HAVEN’T…

Men Who Empower Women

Quick revision: I’m African and I come from the minority group because not only am I female but I grew up without a dad, so I know all too well all the stereotype beliefs on us ( sleeping around, being good for nothing, not educated, not etiquette enough,ratchet,  you name it), and that’s okay, you…

She Let Go

She let go. Without a thought or a word, she let go. She let go of the fear, She let go of the judgements .She let go of the confluence of opinions swarming around her head. She let go of the committee of indecision within her. She let go of all the “right” reasons.Wholly and…