I Have Become A Queen

I remember my chest tightened so much when I was told he was gone, and for a tiny person, I fell so hard to the ground and felt my entire world disappear into thin air and I cried in a way I still can’t and will never explain. Was that really it? He was gone?…

Women who Slay

We are officially here! OFFICIALLY! First announcement: I never want to hear that corny mess again on how fatherless black girls are good for nothing and become thots who waste their years not doing anything with their lives, because I am clearly here and I am clearly worthy. Now, on to other things….. Last Thursday…

Random Pyjama Date

Okay, so last Friday I was literally  about to take my afternoon nap ( it was a national holiday so I escaped a 4 hour class. Thank You Lord), but before I took that nap, I got a call from a friend. Let’s make this tiny part very clear, he is a friend, but I…

Lessons learnt at 19

“Sometimes or should I say most of the time, we are raised to trust things that are wrong, we were all taught structures, routines and social norms since we were born but sometimes, these thoughts trick us into believing everything is right and wrong, and questioning them is a good thing. Society expects us to…

16 Failed ” Forever ” Relationships

masterone1. “I was young and wasn’t really sure what ‘forever’ meant.” – Sam, 22 2. “I tried telling myself I was happy with him and that things would get better in the future, but they haven’t. I’m still with him.” – Kristen, 23 3. “We were in a relationship for a few years prior to… via…

Breaking Up With Friends

And I thought break-ups were for lovers alone? *snorts*. Well,let’s start with me. I should have posted this basically weeks ago, literally 3 months ago ,but I needed to bite my tongue, and bite it hard. Now, when I came to Bangkok, everything was just not going my way, literally felt like life was opposing…

Mark My Hair

I’m not going to cut my hair again, it’s damaged enough, so I now need to do it some justice. Did I mention I am moving apartments for the like the 6th time again since I came to Bangkok, but I will save that up for the future. Now, back to my hair, I cut it…